I won't lie to you: I don't lie. I sometimes get gel placed on my nails. I also wear lash extensions. At times, I like to wear fake shiny gold. Ironically, I don’t like “fake”. I should specify: I don’t associate it with untruthful values. I connect with honesty, genuine behaviors and true individuals. I … Continue reading Cookie 13
introspection
Distorted Comparables
Children learn how to behave and respond to others by observing how their caregivers interact with other people. Observing is normal. I often share this action with my son. He inquires about everything he sees. I'm an adult and this next thing; I do sometimes. Maybe, we all do? In my heart, at … Continue reading Distorted Comparables
Snap my cookie#9
Wow. After reading this, I must admit: I feel like a hypocrite. I know crying is healthy. I believe that experiencing our emotions is a.required.progressive.movement. I talk the talk and walk the walk. don’t I? I thought I did. On the journey in overcoming difficult energies and returning to a peaceful state, sometimes; cries and … Continue reading Snap my cookie#9
Snap my cookie#5
Sometimes you have to let go of what you thought your life would be. Find joy in the story you are actually living. I used to envision my life in a very specific way. This picture presented love and work, thrills, responsibilities (not much - come to think of it now), health, wealth and … Continue reading Snap my cookie#5
One me.
Earlier today in the gym, I exchanged a short convo with a fellow regular. I wiped my forehead with my towel while she programmed the elliptical beside. -”Good to see you! How are you?” I asked. She followed with an explanation of what she was going through these days and how she approaches this reality. … Continue reading One me.
Firsts
We tend to remember our first kiss and our first car. Most first times are a big memory lock. I remember my first basement apartment and my first real job. I also feel the vigorous heavyweight of deceptions and losses when I think of my first heartbreak days. Positive or negative experiences: most introductions are … Continue reading Firsts
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Detachment means letting go, non-attachment means letting things be. Let more be. Non-attachment. Yup - I’m familiar with the concept: accepting what comes into our lives and allowing it to leave when it does. It sums up smartly as what’s for you; will be for you effortlessly. Like, ah...really? I took some time to … Continue reading Snap my cookie*3
Kitchen Spill #Empathy
I'm curious. Really. I want to know when and where, if and how. I like pictures and descriptions, details and prognostics. I can easily relate to many different circumstances. Plus, I’m a good listener. Everyone has a unique experience, an interesting story to tell. Even if simple, the intricate details can be captivating. I'm also … Continue reading Kitchen Spill #Empathy
A shift happened.
In life everything changes. This can be a comforting thought when we are juggling heavy loads or dealing with unsettling circumstances. Of course, our blissful loving moments: we wish would never end. Most things that really shake us: we don't get to choose. Some truly are: unforeseen circumstances. But let's forget about the outside world. … Continue reading A shift happened.
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Reset, re-adjust, re-connect and re-focus as many times as you need to. When I enjoy places or things: I'm happy to experience them again. I like to revisit appreciated beaches or restaurants and I'm happy to recreate that delicious meal I prepared last week. Certain songs I love on repeat, it's a … Continue reading Snap my cookie